This is so HORRIBLE!!!
Jan all you need do to silence your critics is to STOP SUBSCRIBING PEOPLE TO YOUR MAIL LISTS UNLESS THEY SPECIFICALLY REQUEST IT!!!!!!
I said this to you the first time you did it to me. I said it when you somehow managed to sub me TWICE to your lists so I got triplicate copies of your every mail (thru your lists and the Observer list). I never ASKED to be subbed to your list. THE ONLY OTHER PEOPLE WHO EVER SUBBED ME UNSOLICITED WERE BORN-AGAIN FUNDIES! It took a series of angry emails to get you to take me off all your lists and KEEP me off. Since I never gave you permission to PUT me on any list, this chapped my ass pretty hard. As now, you blamed ME for a lack of patience when you didn't comply with my first requests.
Every time someone tells you this FACT you whinge about your chronic fatigue and how it makes you muddleheaded. This non sequitur excuse is getting old. Lots of us have chronic ailments. AFAIK, you are the only one who uses yours as an excuse to violate netiquette repeatedly.
Your message is not so vital or lifesaving that it raises you above the rules of common courtesy. Instead of saying 'sure, ok, I'll quit annoying folks by subscribing them uninvited,' you post your alleged test sessions 'proving' you're not mentally ill in the ways your angry victims have suggested. Yes your behavior IS passive-aggressive. I suspect you are well aware of that on some level but it serves your needs to deny it.
I know you are sincere and you think you are doing a wonderful work. But shoving your work at folks uninvited is the height of rude, and excusing that behavior by suggesting that your victims are just being mean and unkind to a sick woman who is only trying to be helpful is, honestly Jan, just plain ludicrous. This is not meant as an insult to you. Consider it a plea for some of the empathy you insist others give to you.
When a curmudgeon like Mommie D is sick of the infighting, it's gone too far. I can't imagine how sick at heart some of the board members must be feeling as they see this idiocy happening. If MY heart o' stone can be bruised by this anger, the tender ones must be in agony...
This lends weight to my resolve to go back into permanent lurk mode. Some pleasures are just not worth the associated hassles...this place is rapidly becoming such.